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September 19, 2012 By Sharon Harrigan

Paris Journal: Taking Our Clothes Off

On gym day this week at my daughter’s school in Paris, the girls were changing in the locker room while a group of children, boys and girls, walked through. The boys didn’t pay much attention to the disrobed girls; they were just trying to get to class, and this was a convenient route. But my daughter turned red when she told me. “I was so embarrassed,” she said.  When I told another parent about the experience the next morning after drop-off, she said, “The French don’t mind taking their clothes off in front of other people.” Her own children, girls and boys, routinely dress in front of each other.

I’ve always known that physical modesty—the willingness to show one’s flesh in public—is a cultural notion. When I lived in New York City, among Orthodox Jewish women in wigs and skirts down to their ankles and among Muslim women in veils, I’d imagined that native-born Americans were on the immodest end of the spectrum. Now I know better.

What’s interesting is that the boys were so matter-of-fact about the lockerroom encounter. I can picture American boys hooting and teasing, instead. Perhaps there’s an analogy here to the way the French deal with alcohol: Everyone is exposed to it, beginning at a young age, in moderation, so they are less likely to abuse it. Children are used to seeing naked bodies—in advertisements on the metro and in their own homes—so there’s no reason to gawk.

Filed Under: Paris Tagged With: locker rooms, modesty, Paris, Sharon Harrigan

September 6, 2012 By Sharon Harrigan

More Lost in Translation: Jeune Fille

“What is your nom de jeune fille?” the banker asked me, as he entered my vital info in his computer to open my account. Jeune means young and fille is girl, or daughter, but the phrase jeune fille means something else altogether. A teenage girl, or a woman in her twenties. A sweet young thing, a hot chick, or as they say here, a nana (which is not a synonym for grandma, believe me). What’s my hot chick name? I don’t know? Can I make one up?

I didn’t say that, though. Instead, I asked, “The name of my daughter?” and started to spell it.

“No, your name before you were married.”

My maiden name. Because a jeune fille is also a maiden (or at least she was in Shakespeare’s time). A mademoiselle.

“We have to ask whether you want to use your maiden name,” he said. “And we have to use Madame, whether you are married or not. It’s a new law.”

“Really?” I asked.

“Everyone received a memo from the government. It’s illegal to use Mademoiselle anymore.”

“We got the memo, too,” said the woman from human resources, who was acting as our intermediary (because, apparently, it’s next-to-impossible to open an account without a connection).

“You can’t even call children Mademoiselle?” my husband asked. He was trying to endear himself to our French bureaucrats by engaging in the small talk we’ve been told is essential to doing any business here. If a fifteen-minute transaction takes an hour, count it successsful, because it’s all about “relationship building.”

“If fillettes start opening bank accounts, imagine, I’ll have to call them Madame!” our banker chuckled. I wondered, but didn’t ask, why little girls need titles at all.

Our previous account, at a different bank, listed our names (without asking how we wanted them) as M ou Mme James Harrigan, or Mr. and Mrs. James Harrigan. A title is not just symbolic, but practical, since this one caused many wasted hours trying to track international wire transfers that were unable to make the connection from Mrs. James Harrigan to me. I had disappeared.

But I’m back. I can’t choose my own nom de jeune fille, but I can invent a nom de plume. Candy? Bunny? Gigi? Perhaps something, like the phrase jeune fille itself, which seems to mean so many different things to so many different people—young but not too young, innocent and old-fashioned, worldly and nubile—at the same time.

Filed Under: Paris Tagged With: Americans in Paris, French bank accounts, French culture and customs, nom de jeune fille, Paris

September 2, 2012 By Sharon Harrigan

Paris Journal: Patron Saint of Bargains, Headaches, and . . . France

Is Paris expensive? That depends. Not if you shop at the Sunday market in Saint Denis. Today we rode the number 13 metro about forty minutes and arrived at this largely immigrant banlieu, a few stops past the periphery of the city. I bought four dining-room chair cushions for 8 Euros total, about $10. Ella blew half her allowance on a fancy hand fan for 1 Euro (about $1.20). Bin upon bin of underwear and lingerie could be had for 1 Euro apiece. Part North African bazaar, part flea market, part fishmonger/cheesemonger/greengrocer/butcher, the Saint-Denis market is so large and bustling that we thought we’d seen it all when we’d only pushed our way, New York-subway-crowd-style, through the spillover and not even entered the main stalls. Once inside, even the gourmet choices were not super-expensive: e.g. marinated swordfish and salmon kebobs for 18 Euros a kilo, or about $9 a pound. The hundreds of hooves, feet, tongues, brains, heads, livers, and intestines of pigs, cows, and lambs could be had quite a lot less (though you’d have to pay me to buy them). On the other hand, a couple days ago Ella and I rollerbladed to the the tony and touristy seventh arondissement, sat at a cafe, and spent 10 Euros, or about $12, on two nonalcoholic drinks. For that I could have bought a dozen racy panties, a pair of shoes, or a week’s worth of farm animal appendages at the Saint Denis market.

Who is Saint Denis? According to legend, about two thousand years ago, he was decaptitated near Montmartre and carried his head in his hand five kilometers until he collapsed in the town and cathedral that are now named for him. Because of the way he died, he is the patron saint of headaches, and I said a little prayer to him for all my friends who are suffering from migraines because of the blue moon. He is also the patron saint of France, and his name is the French version of Dionysus. I’ll drink to that. With the money I saved, I can treat myself to the good stuff.

Filed Under: Paris Tagged With: decaptation, Gothic cathedrals, Paris, Paris markets, Saint Denis, Sharon Harrigan

August 20, 2012 By Sharon Harrigan

Paris Journal: The Euro Crisis (Interview with James Harrigan)

Some frequently asked questions to our in-house expert, my husband James.

Q: Why is this an interesting time to be an economist in Europe?

A: The economy and financial system of Europe are under such incredible stress. There is a chance that there could be a big financial crisis in Europe, leading to countries, including France, leaving the Euro.

Q: So does that mean that everything is cheap in France now for Americans?

A: Not at all, even though the Euro is getting cheaper compared to the dollar. The Euro is twenty cents cheaper than it was a year ago–$1.24 today compared to $1.44 a year ago, a drop of about a 14 percent. So for an American, everything in Paris is about 14 percent cheaper than it was a year ago.

Q: Have you been surprised by prices in Paris?

A: Some things are cheap, like really good wine and cheese, and the shoe stores on our block don’t seem that expensive. The Metro is fairly cheap, compared to the subway in New York City. By contrast, we had to buy a tube of wood glue, which cost about $8, several times more than it would cost in the U.S. Medicine and toiletries are generally very expensive. Once we spent $47 for two falalfel sandwiches, a beer, and a glass of orange juice, but that was in a tourist neighborhood. I’ve also noticed a lot of homeless people on the streets,  even in our bourgeois neighborhood.

Q: Are you going to travel to Greece, since everybody thinks it must be super cheap there now?

A: No. It’s not super cheap, which is a large part of the problem. If Greece left the Euro zone, then their exchange rate would plummet, and everything would be much cheaper than it is now, overnight. But since they’re in the Euro zone for now, they’re stuck.

Q: Can you explain the Euro crisis?

A: It’s instructive to compare Spain and Florida. Both places had huge housing booms and busts. Both places share a currency with a larger and economically stronger area. But Florida automatically gets large transfers from the federal government (through unemployment insurance and Social Security payments, for instance), and it’s fairly easy for people in Florida to move elsewhere in search of work. By contrast, Spain does not receive big transfers from the rest of Europe, and it is difficult for Spaniards to move to countries where they don’t speak the language in search of work.

Q: How is the situation different for Greece and Spain?

A: Greece is very small and the Greek government ran a huge deficit before the crisis. Spain is very large and the government had a budget surplus before the crisis. The Euro zone could survive the departure of Greece but probably not the departure of Spain. The departure of Spain, because it’s such a large country, would probably prompt other countries to leave the Euro zone and the whole thing would collapse.

Q: Why is Spain having a crisis?

A: Because they had a gigantic housing boom and bust, even bigger than in the U.S.

Q: If you were the head of the European Central Bank, what would you do?

A: I would massively buy up Spanish and other countries’ bonds in the hope of causing inflation.

Q: Why would you want inflation?

A: If you can’t have the Euro depreciate, the next best thing is to have faster inflation in Germany than in Spain or Greece. Somehow, prices in Germany need to rise relative to prices in Spain and Greece. Spain and Greece are running huge trade deficits because their goods are not competitive on the world market. To become competitive, prices have to become lower, relative to prices in Germany.

Q: Why hasn’t this already been done?

A: Germany wants to have it both ways: They want the Euro to survive, but without inflation and without spending more money to rescue Greece and Spain, which I don’t think is possible. If Germany wants the Euro to survive, they need to accommodate this adjustment.

James Harrigan is a Professor of Economics at the University of Virginia. From August  2012 to August 2013, he will be a Visiting Professor in the Department of Economics at Sciences Po in Paris. Visit him at http://people.virginia.edu/~jh4xd/

Filed Under: Paris

August 18, 2012 By Sharon Harrigan

Paris Journal: Virgin Among the Virgins

 

Yesterday, we took our first day trip from Paris, to Rouen. Our guidebook says that Rouen is a city of 400,000, ten times the size of Charlottesville. But when we walked back to the train station at the end of the day, Rouen seemed small. After just two weeks, we are starting to see the world from the vantage point of Paris.

Though not completely. “Why are there so many lingerie stores in France?” Ella asked, as we strolled the streets of Rouen. I’m not sure why she didn’t ask before, since our block sells more underthings than food.

“Because lingerie is pretty,” James said.

“But nobody gets to see your underwear,” she said.

“I almost told her I get to see yours,” James told me later “But she’ll figure this all out soon enough.” Or too soon.

I’m not really a prude, though I admit to sometimes enjoying my daughter’s naievete. My attitude often backfires, though, since she chooses the most public and inopportune moments to fill in the gaps of her sex education. In a place where advertisements for beds feature naked women lying over the covers, where kiosks display explicit magazines in plain view and cartoon condoms smile down from posters, she’s getting a crash course.

When she asked me yesterday what a prostitute is, we were sitting on the steps of the Musee des Beaux Arts of Rouen, so close to a twenty-something couple, they could have heard us whisper. (You didn’t notice the prostitutes we saw the other day in the Bois de Boulogne? I thought but didn’t say. Or do you think all French women wear hot pants and high heels and smile at passing cars?)

Ella’s question was prompted by a passage in her (children’s) book, which was recommended by a librarian here in Paris. Ella was taking a break with me, resting and reading, while James took one last look at our favorite painting in the museum: Gerard David’s 1509 masterpiece, “Virgin Among the Virgins,” pictured above.  I laughed to myself, thinking about the contrast between what he and I were doing. “A prostitute is someone who has sex with someone else for money,” I told Ella.

“What’s that?” she asked.

“What’s what?”

“What’s sex?”

“You know what sex is,” I said. Did she really want me to give step-by-step details in front of this nuzzling couple? Or have questions just become a reflex with her, now that she lives in a place where everything seems to need explanation?

She had blitzed us with questions all day, sometimes suggesting we check our smart phones if we didn’t know the answer. Tell me the story of this saint, that saint, she’d said, in the cathedral. How did John the Baptist lose his head?  What is the tree of Jesse? Who is Salome?

“Sex is what people do to have babies.” She finally admitted that she knew.

“Yes,” I said. “But there’s more. We’ll talk about it at home.”

And we will. Today. So she can truly see the world from the vantage point of Paris.

Filed Under: Paris Tagged With: Gerard David, Paris, Rouen, Sharon Harrigan

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